Fridays with Vicky 15
When you first hold that little baby in your arms there is no turning back. The love that fills your heart, the joy, the feeling of taking care of and nurture this little baby is amazing.
With the love and joy also comes those special momma bear powers. You want to protect and keep that baby safe, there are powers within you that you never thought you had.
I would do anything in my power to love, protect and take care of my kids and I`m sure you are the same way.
Apply a little bit of that ”momma bear” power to your online marketing and success is sure to follow.
5 Ways to Apply Your ”Momma Bear Powers” to Online Marketing
1. Potty Training Does Not Happen Over Night…
I am talking the persistent power that comes out when we set bed time routines and get our kids potty trained.
We know those things did not happen over night and success online is the same way.
Take a little bit of that persistent instinct and apply that to your online marketing business.
2. Learning to Ride a Bike Takes a Lot of Band-Aids
When our kids learn to ride a bike or learn pretty much anything new, we are there as cheerleaders and to wipe the tears when they bruise a knee or hurt themselves.
We don`t look at that as mistakes, it is just part of the learning.
The same goes for your online business, there will be things that you wished you had done differently. You will make ”mistakes” but that`s how we learn and improve.
As long as you take action as long as you keep at it, you are in the game. So enjoy the ride, brush off when you make mistakes and get back in the game when you fall.
3. Be Yourself, Let the ”Crazy” Show
You know how you get your kids to laugh by doing the craziest little things. Dancing, goofing off, just being you… apply a little of that to your online business.
Be you, be personal. People will relate and most will love it. There will always be negative people. Enjoy your business with people that share the same interest and believes as you do.
Have fun and be yourself!
4. Focus
When our kids start school and learn to read. We are there to help. We don`t stick a 350 page book under their nose but rather give them letters, sight words and simple easy books to start with.
The same goes if you are learning the basics of online marketing or how to create a website. You have to learn step by step how to do it. It will take time and it might get overwhelming just like our kids might be with reading.
Our kids have school but where can you learn the ropes of online marketing, building a website or making money online? You can read about my number 1 place to learn it all here.
Another thing is focus. In kindergarten they will focus on letters and sounds until they learn how to read. Apply some of that focus to your online business. Focus, master and then feel free to move on to the next thing.
Building 7 websites at ones, is not a good strategy, focus will move you closer to your goals quicker.
5. You Don`t Give Up on Your Kids
If there is one thing we will never do as mothers, is giving up on our kids.
I will always be by my kid`s side no matter what. I might not agree with a certain behavior or choice but there is nothing that would keep me away from my kids.
If you apply just a little bit of that to your online business and don`t give up on it, amazing things can happen.
Keep pushing forward and success will come.
The only way to fail, is to give up. If you keep at it, if you learn along the way and you adjust, goals will be reached and success will follow.
Reward Yourself with a Sticker or…
When our kids do things that we appreciate we reward them with stickers, marbles, an x on a sheet and when they reach a certain amount they will get a treat or something special.
Put that to use in your business as well, reward yourself. If you reach your goals celebrate with, well maybe not a sticker, but how about a massage or 2 hours to read a book or whatever it is that makes you feel good.
I hope you found this helpful, 5 Ways to Apply Your ”Momma Bear Powers” to Online Marketing.
I would love to hear from you, what`s your tips and tricks? Feel free to share below by leaving a comment.
Have a productive day and a great week!
See you next Friday,
Vicky
Next week`s post – How to Start With Affiliate Marketing
P.S Thought I would let you in on some good and bad going on in my online business…
Worst Online Happening This Week: Distraction, I`ve had a spell of “researching” that led me to some pretty interesting reading online, will it move me closer to my goal? Probably not…
Best Online Happening This Week: I found a mom blog conference that I got tickets to go to in September, really looking forward to connect face to face with other bloggers.
Michael says
I am not a Mom, but I am a Dad, and I am sure many Mothers should enjoy your Website. Nice Job!
Vicky says
Hi Michael,
I welcome all dads too. We have to come up with a good name for the dads, dad beer power maybe lol.
Vicky
olga says
Hi Vicky
I love your site and I love your posts, so positive and full of energy
Wish you all the best
Vicky says
Thank you for your kind words Olga!
Vicky
James says
Not a mum or even a parent at that but I think what you say has enough meaning to make anyone understand what your saying and see the truth behind it. I sure did.
Vicky says
Thanks James,
Maybe one day…
Thanks for stopping by, reading and commenting,
Vicky
Alma Kulmala says
What a great site, and great advice. I really enjoyed reading this article.
Thanks!
Alma
Vicky says
Glad you liked the article Alma 🙂
Wendy says
I love, love, love this post! We would never give up on our kids so why would we give up on our businesses. I think it all comes down to being patient and letting it grow. All of your points are so important and valuable. I love that you also talk about rewarding ourselves. This is something that we often forget to do. And if you think about it, running a blog or a business is an amazing accomplishment. We deserve to reward our successes!
Vicky says
Thank you Wendy,
Yes patience place a big part in online success. It will take time. In today`s world many are looking for immediately gratification and instant success, that`s just not the case with an online business or any business for that matter.
I think it`s important to go in with realistic expectations and not expect fabulous results over night. It`s just like learning to ride a bike, it will take some time…
I actually have a post coming about “satisfying rewards to give yourself when reaching a goal” keep an eye out for it.
Vicky
LAMIA says
This is just fantastic dear, it came on time. I was punishing myself because I have discovered grammar mistakes in my first posts. This post helped me to restore confidence and courage. I am a mother of four boys so I have the spirit, but I did not use it yet in my work. I shared your post to every media that I have. Thank you Vicky. You are so helpful. I wish you all the best.
Vicky says
Hi,
No need to punish yourself, we do the best we can, right. Keep implementing, learn from your mistakes and keep at it.
English is my second language, in the beginning I was very concerned about the spelling and grammar to the degree that it stopped me from writing.
Today, I know I make spelling and grammar errors but hopefully the majority of my readers can see through that and focus on the content as whole instead of a single mistake here and there…
Thanks for your kind words,
Vicky
Lis says
What a fun way to learn new things :). This is great, unique and inspirational.
One thing I have learnt from reading this is it that I need to learn to relax with writing and let me shine through.
You have shown with this great article that bringing out your personality can help to provide a lot more inspiration and education.
Thank you for this article.
Lis.
Vicky says
Hi Lis,
Thank you! I`m glad that you found the article helpful.
Yes, let YOU shine through in your writing, it will allow you to connect with your readers.
We want to provide helpful content, that are sometimes educational, if we also make it personal, fun and engaging our readers will get a whole lot more out of it and probably stick around longer.
Vicky
Joshua says
Great post! I’ve never been a father but I’ve worked with children enough at my aunt’s school to know how important it is to be respectful and set a good example for them. They are very impressionable! I’ve found that I can communicate well with them from time and time. I use that gift wisely 🙂 thanks, Vicky!
Vicky says
Well maybe one day… 🙂
Donna says
excellent post, loved the way you used those momma instincts what a great way to put it out there. It will definitely stick in my mind. Thanks for sharing
Donna
Vicky says
Thanks Donna,
Glad you enjoyed the article,
Vicky